Past and Future Life

Here I am 36 years old and writing a piece of music on my past, present and future manners. In this paper I allow for present a brief description of a few of my life makes that I faced growing up. I will also air ahead to the determination I want to accomplish in the future. I grew up in a military family, My father was in the U. S. army at the Air Force Base in Fayetteville, NC ab come in 2 hours from Jacksonville where he and his family was dungeon. My father and capture met in Jacksonville and from there the rest is history.My earlier childhood memories were growing up between Jacksonville and Georgia. I was the youngest of 2. My dad proceed to serve in the Army moreover for whatever reasons he and my catch decided to divorce. At that point my give packed me and my sister up and moved stern to Georgia to live with her p arnts for a while. While living there with my grandparents my sister and I never got along she would always do things and blame me for it.I remember one night after consume dinner my sister got up to put her dishes in the sink in the kitchen, so I came in behind her scarce as I walked up into the kitchen I saw her turning the gas stove on (and you know to use a gas stove you occupy to clean-living it) she wherefore walked out of the kitchen, so I stayed in there nd washed my dishes up but, before I could finish my induce came in and said that she smelled gas, so I told her that my sister was in here messing with the stove, my m new(prenominal) called my sister in the kitchen to find out what happened and of course my sister sit there and lied and said that I turned the stove on.I then tried to tell my contract that my sister was lying on me but she didnt want to debate anything that I was saying so I got into trouble for something I didnt do. I was never able to tell my billet of a story because the start-off thing my mother would say was except up because I dont believe a word you are saying. As I got older and into my teenage years I started experiencing things and debateing a lot of things for myself.I started sneaking out to hang out with my friends, I went to parties, sleep overs just so I could get out the house. I cute to read a boyfriend but my mother told me that I was to young to date. At the age of 16 , I had gotten fraught(p) I kept it a secret for a very(prenominal) long time, I continued to go to inform and work. One day someone called my mother and told her that she may want to imply me to the doctor and check to see if Im pregnant. soundly a few days later My flavorfather and I was in a car accident and I had to go to the Hospital and et x-rays on my knee because it had gotten busted up in the accident. So when the nurse came in my mother was asked to step out the room and the nurse started giving me a corporal and I told her that I believed that I was pregnant and she said well thats eccentric you say that because your mother wanted me to do a pregnancy rivulet on y ou.I asked the nurse not to say anything to my mother at that point and the nurse told me that she couldnt do that so I immediately got excite of what was going to happen next. My mother was told the news about me being pregnant and she was not happy at all. I couldnt go foul to school because I was unable to walk on my leg from the accident but that really wasnt the real reason it was because my mother didnt want to many other people knowing but they already knew what was going on.Well a few weeks went by and one morning my mother came and woke up it had to be around 300am so I got up without any questions my mother , stepfather and I all got into he car and left, I had no musical theme where we were going so I ended up falling back to sleep until we formed our destination and when we got there my mom asked me Do you know where we are? I aid no so we proceeded to go into the this huge backside but once we got in I new what it was from there. It was the abortion clinic in anot her part of Georgia my mother was getting ready to limit me have an abortion and I didnt wan to.Well we went to the back I spoke with the doctor and they had to see how far along I was first before they proceed with the procedure lucky they couldnt perform the procedure because I was to far along in my pregnancy,so then my mother wanted me to have the child and put it up for adoption, she wanted me to give it to one of my step fathers brother and his wife but hat fell thru, then she wanted me to have the baby and put his last name the same as hers for insurance purposes at least thats what she told me.I really didnt have a say so when it came to my child, and I had a big problem with that so I went back to work so I can take care of my child. One night I came home from work and before I could get to the steps I could here my baby vociferous and crying, I walked into the house to see that no one was there to allay him. I walked through the house to find that my mother was in the pull away sound asleep.I was very angry with her at this point so I had to figure a way to et out of that house, so I called and spoke with my oldest sister and we both got in contact with our father and we make plans for him and my uncle to come and rescue us from this mess. I finally turned 18 and my father and uncle came to pick us up from Georgia and brought us to NC I was very glad to be away from that house with my mother. When I got colonized in I went back to school and got my juicy school diploma I was very excited then because I completed the high school and it was time that I find a job so I can continue to take care of my child.I be the local community college here and eceived my certification as a care for assistant and from there I went to work for a few nurse homes but then, I got tired of all that hard work for a little bit of pay so I quit running(a)(a) in that field for a while and started doing retail , I enjoyed working in the retail field it was a real le arning experience but my passion was still in the health field so I went back to college. In our studies of adult development theory, I was provoke to learn about Eriksons theories of psycho kindly stages.Erikson believed adolescents anguish over who they are and how they fit into their social world. (Witt& Mossler 2010, pg. 53). Here I am now with 2 children and working towards my transaction degree. It has taken me a really long time to figure out what it was that I really wanted to be doing and where I wanted to be in my life and I have figured it out now. My goal is to finish my business degree and open up my business and then go back to school to obtain my bachelors in healthcare management. I have learned so many things from my childhood growing up, but I cant dwell on the past although sometimes I have to go back in time to relate to the present.Now I have to build a future for me and my hildren so they can see how hard there mother worked and how far I have gotten in life. As our text explains, modeling is an important source of learning (Witt& Mossler,2010) and I also want to set a good examples for my children. My family and friends are very supportive and happy that I have chosen to go back to college and get my degree. With all this support it has helped me to succeed in my courses (chu2010). I believe that you are never to old to go back to school and reach the goals that you have been trying to reach. I think you have to have trustingness and believe that things will work out.